FACTS ON RELATIONSHIPS


A man of vision is not necessarily a rich
And a successful man is never the same as a rich man.
Often time when a lady says "I want a man with vision"
What goes through her mind is that she wants a man that has good plans to make money in the future. Most ladies are fond of having a prototype figure of the type of man they want and infact when some ladies watch some accomplished guys on TV they just imagine their man could be who they are watching and some even develop hatred for their men wondering why his story is not like the rich men they read about or watch on TV but the hard fact of life is that everyone of us have different scripts of life and we can never ever be the same.


Before you marry a man you must understand what he wants from life and trust me, some men have vision that has no affiliations to riches and you must also understand that no matter how dogged and resilient that guy may be in actualizing his dreams, some visions never come to pass and you must understand these facts and decide if you are still interested in being with him regardless and not frustrate his life if things do not turn out the way its planned.


Some guys have a vision to be good activists, caterers, teachers, missionaries, to serve someone, to be a dancer, sportsman, drummer and so on but the truth is that a man's vision is his vision so whenever ladies use these words "I want a man of vision" they must understand that some men don't even have vision to be rich but to be fulfilled and fulfillment in your career is never the same as riches.

People who changed the history of the world where not wealthy talking about:

Jesus Christ
Muhammed
Isaac Newton
Nelson Mandela
Christopher Columbus
The Buddha
Mikhail Gorbachev
Winston Churchill
Woodrow Wilson
William Shakespeare
Martin Luther King.....

I can only imagine if Jesus happens to have a lady he was planning to marry and he tells the lady that is vision is to die for the world, will she still stand by him and marry him?

So when next a lady says "she wants a man with vision"
Please don't think that every visionary man is keen on riches so ask that guy well and decide if you are willing to stand by him or just take a walk and allow a lady who will go all the way with him come into his life.

And for the guys, please don't be scared to open up to that lady on your real vision no matter how silly or lowly, it may be remember that following your passion and fulfilling your vision is the greatest success and the greatest wealth you can ever acquire but you must also understand that no matter your vision, it is important for you to still perform your primary financial duty as the head of the family.

And for the ladies I will advice that you look inward, be a goal getter and set out early in life to also achieve your goals in life without any form of dependency or expectancy from any man because that man who seem to have great wealth today can crash in a swift and that unassuring man could become a billionaire later, so go for the man for the right reason and commit the rest to fate.


Hope this makes sense.