FACTS ON RELATIONSHIPS
I Survived Heartbreak
LearningFirst time on this site....well ill guess ill begin. I met alex when i was about 2 years ago. He was dating my friend asia and they had broken up. This time i was begining to learn that people turn on you especially friends , which as you can guess what my friends did. so one day i was going to class and really nervous to take a test . when im nervous i do this weird thing where i just bite the skin off the tips of my fingers or bite my nails. well he came by and ive never really talked to him before. He then asked me if i was okay and i told him the situation, his reply was " well i can give you something else to suck on besides your finger".....it was sooo dirty and corny that the only words that came out my mouth were " okay text me", they do that in movies and i never understood how they would text or call you if they just met you and didnt have your number. but alex emailed me that night. Right from the start we became close and it was the best feeling ever having someone that made me laugh and i could tell anything to. Eventually he asked me out on 4-12-12 . i remember we had our first kiss and ive never kissed a guy before him. i was always sheltered and didnt really have guy friends at all. he was the first guy ive ever held hands with and he taught me how to make out . he was sweet, charming, funny and his family loved me . when a new semster started i had lost my virginity to him. i loved him and only after 6 months. i felt nothing like it in my whole life and it was magical . Every single moment was like it came from a movie and even though he was rich and im middle class it didnt matter that i couldnt always afford to go to a fancy restaurant or anything , he didnt care, and he loved me for who i was. No one besides family has ever done that.
The new semester started and things were great , then he felt as though i was neglecting him. i got into a drinking problem and wasnt myself any more. one day i checked facebook on my phone and i saw i had a new message from some girl and i opened it .... it wasnt my account i was logged into , it was his. anyway him and this girl were talking about doing very dirty things and but i could tell through out the messages that he wasnt giving in. and he didnt even defend me when the girl called me out my name. i was soooo pissed but i forgave him. later on i had found out that she and him had kissed . might not seem like a big deal but it was at the time. i then met carlos and i didnt intend on being anything but friends with him and then one night i was mad at alex and started drinking again and i slept with carlos. i told alex as soon as the weekend was over. he was mad but he found it in his heart to forgive me (somewhere in the months of november).
December rolled around and alex was begining to lose feeling for me . so we ended it only for him to move on two days later to a basketball play named jasmine. i could tell he was really happy but i couldnt let him go. When someone means that much to you its really hard. i cried myself to sleep for 3 whole months. i know it sounds pathetic but i know what we had was real and special. i was super jealous with him and jasmine . and me having to take pills cause im bipolar i wanted to burn his house down with him inside and actually attepted but a voice in my head said dont so i went back home. alex began cheating on jasmine with me. i had sex with him cause i thought that it would bring him back to me. i was crushed when they went to prom together and they looked sooooo happy and i could tell he really wanted to be with her and thats what made me the maddest was that he was okay and happy with out me. i felt like all we had been through meant nothing to him . He told me he couldnt decide who he wanted to be with and for months i watched him tell me on thing then go be with her. a girl can tell things about other girls that guys just cant. and i could tell she didnt want to be with him. as im typing this im crying.... anyway jasmine decided she wanted to not be with him and i spent the end of april , may and half of june over him. then he came back declaring his love for me and yes not gonna lie , i did miss him very much but i couldnt make him be with me .
We tried things out again for the summer. both knowing that it would end badly and not last long. but we were stupid in love and didnt care. i felt again that i was neglecting him but it was my bipolar side not me and i regret hurting him . again with our relationship down the toilet the end of july i figured since he loves sex soo much ( as does every other teenage hormonal guy) that again if i gave it to him it would make our relationship last longer. due to not enough time spent together because the previous year i had spent the night secretly at his house ( longer story) and his dad wasnt home so he found out by the sister and we were never allowed to hang with each other again but we still do secretly ... but anyway he ended it for good and im just trucking along . its been 5 days since we officially broke up . it feels good to get it off my chest. whooooo sigh of relief
I Survived Heartbreak
LearningFirst time on this site....well ill guess ill begin. I met alex when i was about 2 years ago. He was dating my friend asia and they had broken up. This time i was begining to learn that people turn on you especially friends , which as you can guess what my friends did. so one day i was going to class and really nervous to take a test . when im nervous i do this weird thing where i just bite the skin off the tips of my fingers or bite my nails. well he came by and ive never really talked to him before. He then asked me if i was okay and i told him the situation, his reply was " well i can give you something else to suck on besides your finger".....it was sooo dirty and corny that the only words that came out my mouth were " okay text me", they do that in movies and i never understood how they would text or call you if they just met you and didnt have your number. but alex emailed me that night. Right from the start we became close and it was the best feeling ever having someone that made me laugh and i could tell anything to. Eventually he asked me out on 4-12-12 . i remember we had our first kiss and ive never kissed a guy before him. i was always sheltered and didnt really have guy friends at all. he was the first guy ive ever held hands with and he taught me how to make out . he was sweet, charming, funny and his family loved me . when a new semster started i had lost my virginity to him. i loved him and only after 6 months. i felt nothing like it in my whole life and it was magical . Every single moment was like it came from a movie and even though he was rich and im middle class it didnt matter that i couldnt always afford to go to a fancy restaurant or anything , he didnt care, and he loved me for who i was. No one besides family has ever done that.
The new semester started and things were great , then he felt as though i was neglecting him. i got into a drinking problem and wasnt myself any more. one day i checked facebook on my phone and i saw i had a new message from some girl and i opened it .... it wasnt my account i was logged into , it was his. anyway him and this girl were talking about doing very dirty things and but i could tell through out the messages that he wasnt giving in. and he didnt even defend me when the girl called me out my name. i was soooo pissed but i forgave him. later on i had found out that she and him had kissed . might not seem like a big deal but it was at the time. i then met carlos and i didnt intend on being anything but friends with him and then one night i was mad at alex and started drinking again and i slept with carlos. i told alex as soon as the weekend was over. he was mad but he found it in his heart to forgive me (somewhere in the months of november).
December rolled around and alex was begining to lose feeling for me . so we ended it only for him to move on two days later to a basketball play named jasmine. i could tell he was really happy but i couldnt let him go. When someone means that much to you its really hard. i cried myself to sleep for 3 whole months. i know it sounds pathetic but i know what we had was real and special. i was super jealous with him and jasmine . and me having to take pills cause im bipolar i wanted to burn his house down with him inside and actually attepted but a voice in my head said dont so i went back home. alex began cheating on jasmine with me. i had sex with him cause i thought that it would bring him back to me. i was crushed when they went to prom together and they looked sooooo happy and i could tell he really wanted to be with her and thats what made me the maddest was that he was okay and happy with out me. i felt like all we had been through meant nothing to him . He told me he couldnt decide who he wanted to be with and for months i watched him tell me on thing then go be with her. a girl can tell things about other girls that guys just cant. and i could tell she didnt want to be with him. as im typing this im crying.... anyway jasmine decided she wanted to not be with him and i spent the end of april , may and half of june over him. then he came back declaring his love for me and yes not gonna lie , i did miss him very much but i couldnt make him be with me .
We tried things out again for the summer. both knowing that it would end badly and not last long. but we were stupid in love and didnt care. i felt again that i was neglecting him but it was my bipolar side not me and i regret hurting him . again with our relationship down the toilet the end of july i figured since he loves sex soo much ( as does every other teenage hormonal guy) that again if i gave it to him it would make our relationship last longer. due to not enough time spent together because the previous year i had spent the night secretly at his house ( longer story) and his dad wasnt home so he found out by the sister and we were never allowed to hang with each other again but we still do secretly ... but anyway he ended it for good and im just trucking along . its been 5 days since we officially broke up . it feels good to get it off my chest. whooooo sigh of relief
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